I've been thinking about the term "stay-at-home mom." Makes it sound like I just sit around all day, doing nothing but obeying a command commonly given to dogs. STAY! SIT! NURSE! DO LAUNDRY! DISHES! WIPE BUTTS!
How about "work-your-ass-off mom"? Or "feet-are-killing-me mom"? Or "need-a-freaking-break-here mom"? Or "would-really-like-to-pee-all-by-myself mom"?
Hmmmm....this has potential, methinks.